The Adventure of Mommyhood

This is a companion site to the website I maintain for my son. That one houses pictures and comments on his life and development, and this one will be for my own thoughts and comments on life as a mommy. Being mommy to an infant means I will not post too often, but hopefully it will be enough to let friends and family feel included in our lives even if they are far away. :-)

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Location: Jasper, Texas, United States

I am Mommy to two rambunctious little boys. Darrin AKA "Bear" will be 8 in December, and Chase turned 5 in July. I graduated from Pearland High School in 1996, and went to college for a few years, but didn't earn a degree (wasn't really going for one anyway).

Wednesday, October 26, 2005

Confession

Okay, I'll admit it. I'm hooked on "America's Next Top Model." Yeah, yeah, you go ahead and laugh, but I'm sure you have an embarassing guilty pleasure too! :-Þ
MommyFaerie :-)

Tuesday, October 25, 2005

Sweepstakes, Etc.

Hello there,
Here are a few neat sweepstakes opportunities for everyone. Have fun, and good luck!

http://www.fisher-price.com/fp.aspx?st=2260&e=starStatLandingFlash&refcode=fisher-price.com
Here you can enter for a chance for your child to be on a Fisher-Price toy package! Other prizes include FP toy shopping sprees. Finish--or begin--your child's Peek-a-Blocks or Roll-a-Rounds collections! Woohoo! You must be the legal guardian of a child aged 3-6 years living in the same household, or a grandparent to a child aged 3-6 years, at the time of entry. Unfortunately, this means I can't enter. :-( But maybe you can.

http://www.fisher-price.com/fp.aspx?st=10&e=wishescometruelanding&code=pwwct05&refcode=Fisher-Price.com&custid=&refentryid=
Here you can enter to win a Fisher-Price Power Wheels vehicle. To enter, you must be a parent/guardian/grandparent, as outlined in the above sweepstakes, only the age requirement for the child this time is 6 years or younger. Woohoo again! I can enter!

www.SpotTheQuilters.com
If you purchase QuiltedNorthern bathroom tissue in a specially marked package, there is a code on the inside of the wrapper. Enter it at this website to see if you're an instant winner. I won a free song download! Woohoo!

www.campaignforrealbeauty.com
Okay, not a sweepstakes, but this is a cool site set up by the makers of Dove products, to promote healthy, natural examples of beauty, rather than underweight, botox-injected, plastic-surgery-overhaul images like we see in magazines and movies. Very cool idea.

http://www.wheeloffortune.com/indexflash.php
Get your own "SPIN ID" and you can win prizes along with the contestants, at least one person wins six days a wekk. It may as well be you or me. You needn't watch the show every broadcast either, just visit this site within 24 hours of each show and check to see if your SPIN ID was featured. You could win a trip or a vehicle! Woohoo!

Okay, time to go.... Darrin's up from his nap! I'll post more links as I come across them.
MommyFaerie :-)

Sunday, October 23, 2005

Gee, Thanks

Rita Update:

My mom's house has electricity now. Guess what arrived the day AFTER they got electricity? That's right, her package shipped via FedEx. The one whose contents would have made life WITHOUT ELECTRICITY a lot easier. Oh, she can't get a refund of her exorbitant shipping charges either? Gee, thanks. Idiots.

So, to recap, we'd appreciate it if you patronized other fine shipping establishments. The United States Postal Service gets a bad rep, but they're reliable. UPS also does fine work. For large items, you can go with Yellow Freight or DHL. Just don't use FedEx. They suck. On toast. :-Þ

I was just thinking.... Mom, you oughtta start a class-action suit against Federal Express. Every single person whose package was re-routed to take a nice little vacation in the Beaumont processing center should be refunded their shipping charges. THAT would be helping out in a time of need. So what if FedEx is donating to charities like the Red Cross. WE know how difficult it is for people to get anything out of the Red Cross! FedEx needs to be helping victims DIRECTLY by honoring their delivery guarantees and issuing refunds. Yes, Rita was an "act of God," but sending packages to a non-working processing center was an act of an idiot. That idiot should be fired (or demoted at the very least), and these people should have their money back. You go get 'em. Raaaaar!

Consider this post an internet petition. If you FedEx stole your money too, post a comment!

Monday, October 10, 2005

Rita Pictures 4

...and here are the last of them.
Unaffected by the storms, hummingbirds continue to frequent the feeder hanging on the porch. If you're very quiet and still, you can get them to perch on your finger, like I did. :-)
We witness larger swarms than this all the time, but when the camera beeps and flashes, they're quick enough that some fly away before the shot is actually taken. Thus, the most I could capture in one shot were these six.

Rita Pictures 3

...and five more...
Darrin enjoys a cool washtub bath and squirty elephant toys.
Mom washes, Dad rinses and wrings, and Ms. G hangs.
My mom lets Darrin take a ride on a fallen tree. Actually this shot is much wider, showing the massiveness of the tree, but then you wouldn't be able to see cute little Darrin's face, it would have been so tiny. :-)
One baby squirrel is fed by Ms. G in the background, and this one, having a full belly, curls up in my mom's hand, ready for naptime.

Here's Darrin's outdoor play room, the back porch. The brick floor is covered with a blanket, there's a plastic webbing barrier all around, and a garden trellis has been adapted to make a screen door. Darrin, keeping cool in the breeze, scoots around in just a diaper. :-)

Sunday, October 09, 2005

Rita Pictures 2

Here are the next five piccies:
Mom and Dad (holding Darrin) survey the damage.
Trapper, the amazing rescue puppy!
The only tree to actually damage property directly, this one fell on the dog pen fence.
The tree that could have totalled the house, were it not for the other two in its way.
Baby squirrels Rocky and Roxanne rest, with full bellies, in my mom's hands.

Friday, October 07, 2005

Don't use Fed Ex!

Why? The management team at Federal Express must be comprised entirely of idiots. Their press releases are full of just how much they're helping hurricane victims and donating to charity, etc. However, in practice, they continue to send packages to their Beaumont processing center which THEY KNOW IS NOT FUNCTIONING, to let the packages just SIT THERE. They apparently lack the forethought (even afterthought, since this has been going on for at least a week) to have those packages re-routed to another procesing facility. Now, you may be asking, "Can't they just pack up all the packages already at the Beaumont center, and ship them to, say, the Lufkin center, and then deliver them?" That's what we thought too. WRONG. FedEx says that if the packages leave that building, and they are not going directly to their recipients, then they must be returned to the senders. Huh? You heard me right. Ludicrous, isn't it? Add to that the fact that FedEx will NOT honor its money-back delivery-on-time guarantee on these shipments, and you have a LOT of dissatisfied customers, who have paid (sometimes a lot of) money to get (sometimes desperately needed) packages that FedEx has decided, instead, to store in Beaumont for the foreseeable future. Boo! Poor form, people! FedEx cares about people when it gets them a headline and a pat on the back, but they are doing exactly ~squat~ for their customers who happen to be serviced by their Beaumont processing center (maybe others too?).

MY MOM is one of those customers. I am not attacking this company randomly. My mom paid a great deal of money to get a certain package sent as quickly as possible. She needs the item contained within ASAP, as it will facilitate life without electricity thanks to hurricane Rita. Instead of re-routing her package through a functioning processing center, FedEx decided that her package wasn't vital to her survival, and they sent it to go hang out with countless others that are sitting in the Beaumont processing center, until such time as they can get the place running again. How long will that be? Nobody knows. All they know is that if you live where my mom lives, your packages are routed through Beaumont, end of story. So my mom must wait. And then, if and when she gets her package, FedEx keeps her sizable shipping fee because the delay "is not their fault." Boo! BOO!

So, don't use FedEx, just don't do it. Their ignorance and unwillingness to put a contingency plan into effect (which, by the way, their website SAYS that they DO) is unacceptable. Stand with us, and NEVER USE FEDEX AGAIN. I know I won't.

Thursday, October 06, 2005

Rita Pictures 1

Darrin gets all comfy in his "hidey-hole" in the hall closet.
Grammy (my mom) and Darrin sit and watch the trees sway (if a little too much), and feel the wind. Although Darrin looks as though he's giving the storm "the finger," he really was just trying to catch the wind in his hands! Really!
My mom feeds one of the baby squirrels, who seems to be loving every drop.

Our kitties, brothers Bixby (black) and Ripley (grey) , watch the stormy weather with great interest. The front porch was covered with branches, etc.

Mommy joins Darrin in our safe place. I tried to look at the camera, but blinked. That's why I have that goofy grin. :-)

Rita Adventure: Postscript

After much deliberation and re-reading, I realize now that my Rita story is not only full of typos, but I also have a couple of facts incorrect. It's mostly minor stuff, for instance, I actually burned my arm on Monday morning, not Tuesday morning. So, please forgive the mistakes caused by my Swiss-cheese brain. I really think it's an enjoyable read nonetheless, and I'm just a tiny bit proud of it. :-)

It's now been over a week since we came back home, so I suppose we're due for an update. I did a little web-searching for my folks, since they're still relying on the generator and trying to conserve fuel. I found a bunch of information on raising orphaned squirrels for them, and then went on a little quest to find them a clothes wringer. Seems that, even way out in deep east Texas, where antique shops are more prevalent than Dairy Queens, wringers and tubs and washboards are SOLD OUT. Wow. My mom and dad already had the tubs and washboard, but needed a wringer. After an exhaustive eBay search, I do a quick web search and find that there are actually still a couple of companies producing hand-cranked wringers. Sweet. If you're going to spend a lot of money to get an antique in good enough condition to actually use, why not spend a little more and get something brand new with a guarantee? Mom agreed, and so with a quick phone call and a flick of yet another credit card, they have a wringer on the way.

They've also spent a bundle more on fuel, having purchased two BARRELS of gasoline...and that will probably last for only two weeks or so. Bummer. I just hope FEMA sees things the way we do, and agrees that fuel to run the generator and a new wringer and gas cans and all that are living expenses, things that would not have been purchased had my family not been out of electricity so long. My family can't afford to pay for these things out-of-pocket. They really need to be reimbursed. So, pray and keep your fingers crossed that FEMA pulls through for them.

Mom tells me that Rocky and Roxanne are growing fast, their tails properly bushing out. She thinks that maybe Rocky's from a different litter than Roxanne, because he seems so much smaller and less developed than his "sister." It is quite possible that Trapper, the puppy, had found a single survivor from two different nests. There were several trees downed by the storm, after all. Another possibility is that Rocky is just the runt of the litter. At any rate, they both seem to be doing very well and eating plenty.

They've taken to "riding" in shirt pockets, all snuggled in a ball. How cute is that? Since they'll soon be much too big for shirt pockets, my mom has bought a utility apron with two large pockets, so they can eventually ride around in that instead. I said, "So, you're going to be like Katy-No-Pocket!" Unless you've read the children's book, of course, that makes no sense to you, but my mom laughed. It had been one of my favorite books as a child. It's about a kangaroo with no pocket for her baby to ride in, and she eventually finds an apron with lots of pockets and then all the little woodland creatures want to ride in one of her pockets. Awwwww. :-) Anyway, my mom is playing surrogate to two lively squirrels who apparently think they're marsupials because they want to ride in a warm pocket. Silly beasts. Hopefully my mom will send me updated pictures to post here and show you. For now, I'm going to start uploading my own pictures of our hurricane Rita adventure. Enjoy :-)

Wednesday, October 05, 2005

Rita Adventure: Part 5

Monday. Monday! MONDAY!

Today is much like yesterday. I imagine most days are when you're living like a pioneer. We were very hot most of the day, spending much of our time outside to stay cool, but ending up being really hot regardless. Most of us took another cold shower this evening, and we ate really well, thanks to mom's cokking, and leftovers from yesterday's feast. We've got clean laundry, thanks to mom washing, dad wringing (mom's got nerve issues that make her hands and wrists hurt if taxed too much), and Ms. G hanging stuff out to dry.

Today, while Darrin took his morning nap, I followed Ms. G to her house, to see the damage, and to meet all her kitties. I have been wanting to visit her pad ever since I found out about all her kitties, but since I was pregnant at the time, I thought it unwise. Kitties can spread toxoplasmosis, which, if the mommy hasn't already been exposed and developed an immunity, can cause all sorts of problems for her unborn child. This is why pregnant women are encouraged not to have cats in the house, or, at the very least, to have someone else handle the litterbox duties. Anyway, FINALLY, I get to go see all the kitties! A pity it had to be under such circumstances, but I'm still psyched to be going.

Ms. G must have at least 30 cats, some indoor, some outdoor, some friendly, and some feral but willing to lounge on a porch and munch kitty food if you don't try to pet them. I've never seen so many kitties at once in my life! Eeeeeee! :::squeals like little girl::: There are entire families here, brothers and sisters, and mommies and babies and grandparents too! Ohhhh, the kittens are too much cuteness. Nothing should be this cute. One kitten is a ball of thick long fur, in tortoiseshell coloring, and she (all tortoiseshell kitties are female) bounces and pounces and prances around like she owns everything and the other kittens are there for her amusement. There is a simply stunning outdoor (mostly feral) kitty, who is lounging next to a fallen tree, enjoying the shade, and she/he is mostly cream colored with a hint of seal point coloring (ears, nose, paws--think Siamese or Birman), and an occasional faint stripe or patch of spots (like a Bengal). It's possibly the most beautiful cat I've ever seen.

ALL the kitties have names. Some of the names reflect the kitty's appearance, like "Tippytoes," who is all black except the toes on her back paws, which are white. Also, there's "Stripy Girl," who has a an orange stripe down the center of her black face, and is the daughter of "Two-Facey," whose face is half-orange, half-black. Other kitties are named for their personalities or relationships, i.e. a pair of twin orange tabby boys are "Amos" and "Andy," and one little rascal is "Hoss." I get rather attached to a little black kitten with a hurt shoulder, whose given name is completely foreign to me. I have no idea how to spell it, I just know it's "pick-something," so I decide "Pickles" is close enough. I tote little "Pickles-Kitty" around, holding her close to my chest. She purrs loudly, her entire body vibrating. I showed a great deal of restraint by putting her down before I left to trek back to mom and dad's. I very nearly decided that she had to come back to Pearland and be my kitty. (Aren't you PROUD of me, sweetie? I resisted. Barely.) :-) Needless to say, if you know anyone who would like to adopt a kitty, there's a veritable kitty-farm out on "Frame Hill" just outside of Jasper, TX, and Ms. G probably wouldn't put up a fight if you fell in love with a kitten and just HAD to take it home with you.

I've timed my kitty visit perfectly, as Darrin is just waking up when I arrive back at mom and dad's. I've been fighting him lately, trying to get him to nurse enough, but he's not interested in much milk. I imagine it has something to do with the heat. That's alright, of course, since the other babies in the house will need milk too. I've been adding to my mom's refrigerated stash of squirrel provisions, and the squirrels are obviously doing well on the formula we've mixed up for them. One has even started to open one eye! (Once I return to Pearland, an Internet search reveals that at this time, the squirrels are most likely 4-5 weeks old, when the eyes and ears open. At 18 weeks or so, a squirrel is usually weaned and ready to live on its own.)

Like I've said before, by this point, our daily activities tend to all run together, since most of our time is spent just trying to keep cool. Darrin, of course, has his tub of cool water to play in, and we make use of it a few times today. The big adventure today has to do with the generator. It's been sputtering and emitting great clouds of smoke randomly. Dad has checked everything out and found that it is, indeed, the generator itself that has the problem, and not the compressor or anything else we've hooked up to it. Dang. Generators are a HOT commodity right now. Our only hope is that my brother can help. He works at a tractor place in town, so we give him a call.

Thank goodness, Jasper County Tractor is getting a truck full of generators late tonight, to go on sale early tomorrow morning! They're expensive, but we need one. It may be two months or more before electricity is restored here. TWO MONTHS! My brother pulls through for us, and dad is able to head down and bring one back tonight. Thanks a bundle, B.

It is now the next morning, Tuesday. Darrin wakes Mommy up, as has been the usual, long before Mommy would really like to wake up. Oh well, waking up means coffee (decaf, of course, since I'm nursing... but I'm only psychologically addicted, so that's fine). :-) This morning, I did an incredibly ignorant thing. We were running the new generator, so instead of using a pot on the propane stove, we were able to heat water in the electric kettle, for instant coffee. I, being ever so groggy, reached above the kettle for something, and managed to get a nasty burn on my forearm, from the steam. Go Brandi, really smart! I've been paying for my ignorance ever since, as a few hours later I a had a little blister or two, and by evening, the entire area was a huge ugly red blister. So that's what a second degree burn looks and feels like. Yikes. Well, I won't be doing that again!

This evening, my sweetie will be coming to pick us up. Yay! Today, Darrin surprises Mommy with an unexpected show of his intellectual abilities. It's really hot (what's new?) and we're rather bored, so I decide to let Darrin play in the cool water tub for awhile. Though he does love to play in the water, I do have an ulterior motive--I put my bare feet in the cool water too. :-) Well, Darrin's only in the tub, playing with squirty toys for maybe five or ten minutes when he starts trying to stand up and pull up into my lap. Surely, you're not done playing, I think, so I set him back down and splash water on him a bit. A couple more minutes in the water, and Darrin does something that I think is just amazing. First, he stands up, holding on to the edge of the tub. Then, with one hand holding himself upright, he uses the other hand to fish out one toy and promptly drops it over the edge of the tub. He takes the other toy out of the water, and out it goes as well. Then, holding on to the tub with both hands, he started to raise his leg, like "I'm getting out now!" It may not sound like much, but you have to remember he's only nine months old. Plus, what he's just done is doubly impressive. Not only does he know how one goes about getting out of a tub (one leg over the edge first, while holding on), but that he comprehends chronological order too. The toys are put away first, THEN you can get out of the tub. You are awesome, little boy, just awesome. I'm so proud of you! BIG hugs and kisses from Mommy! Go Darrin, go Darrin, go Darrin!

Other than our little tub session, today feels much like the past couple of days, only now, washing clothes outside in tubs and cooking on the grill and propane stove are starting to feel like "normal." Life is pretty good here, even without amenities like hot water and air conditioning. Oh, one more thing to note is that we're noticing just how much fuel it takes to run a generator, and we haven't nearly enough to last anywhere near two months. So, my sweetie will be bringing whatever he can when he comes tonight. Luckily, I think to call our buddy, Craig, at BOAT U.S., and find that his store has just received a shipment of 5-gallon gas cans. A few moments later, we've used mom and dad's credit card, and four cans are waiting to be picked up, so mom and dad will have 20 gallons of fuel. All my sweetie has to do is pick them up on his way out of town, and fill them when he fills the car for the trip.

My sweetie arrives just after dark (and just after we had fried chicken that was oh-so-yummy--great dinner, mom!), and we pile in the car to head for home. Mom and dad are sending the baby walker home with us, since Darrin loves it so much. He'll probably be walking soon, and we don't visit but maybe once a month anyway, so he'll get more use out of it if we have it at home. Thanks mom and dad! We arrive at home, and head off to bed as soon as we can, Darrin after nursing, and Mommy after a nice HOT shower. Ahhhh. In the morning, I kinda miss having coffee on the porch and watching the squirrels be fed, and of course, I miss being with my family. Thank you, Mom and Dad, for taking such great care of me and Darrin, and the neighbors too. You are the BEST! WE LOVE YOU!!

Tuesday, October 04, 2005

Rita Adventure: Part 4

Playpens, showers, and a dinner party. :-)

It's Sunday, and now we miss the winds, because at least they had kept us cool. There is a slight breeze, so we want to be outside on the porch as much as possible. Darrin, being unable to walk yet on his own, and still having a penchant for putting anything and everything in his mouth, cannot be left alone anywhere. However, he's at least 25 pounds now, too heavy to be toted around ALL the time. Add to that the fact that he WANTS to be off on his own and likes the independence, and we realize we need some safe place set up just for Darrin. The house is out of the question, as it is simply too hot when we don't have the generator running to power fans, sometimes too hot even with the fans. Although we do have a baby walker here, there's really no place outside that is safe for him to use it, unless.... My mom and dad have a cunning plan.

The back porch is about an 8x8 sq. ft. area, consisting of a brick floor and a roof attached to the house's main roof, held up on the other side by two square wooden posts. If we were to clean it off (taking pictures first, of course, for FEMA's reference), and somehow put a barrier around the edge, Darrin would be free to sit and play or careen around in his walker as much as he liked, and he would hopefully stay cool because of the nice breeze. So, my dad, Mr. MacGuyver, goes to work building a barricade. He has several scrap pieces of wood and some plastic webbing, originally intended for reinforcing concrete roads I believe. Mom and I had found a roll of the stuff in the middle of the road, and had done the Texas DPS a favor and taken it with us. Stuff in the middle of the road is community property, did you know that? Mom did, her hubby's in law enforcement. :-)

Using the existing posts and the scrap wood ones, placed at various intervals, dad wraps the plastic net around the porch and secures it. The netting piece is pretty stiff--it won't sag, adn Darrin can't destroy it even with his five sharp little teeth. It's about 18 inches wide (tall) and there's only about a foot of length left over, like it was intended for just this purpose. The brick floor is swept off and mom lays an old blanket down as carpet. Darrin has an outdoor playroom! He spends a lot of his time running/rolling in his walker, going 'round in circles, enjoying his freedom and the breeze. He also sits on the blanket and plays with toys that we've brought out for him. Dad also has one more contribution. He has a large, hinged wire screen, probably meant to put out in a garden for ivy to grow up on it, which was one of the pieces considered for making Darrin's playroom barrier. Instead, mom has a better idea for it. Dad installs a vertical post on the porch, right at the middle of the sliding doors, and attaches the screen there, so that it swings open and shut. Now we can leave the sliding door open for ventilation, and still keep indoor/outdoor animals where they belong. Awesome! See, I TOLD you he was MacGuyver! :-)

In the meantime, since mom is so busy with other things (like dinner), Ms. G has been elected the squirrels' official nanny. There is, by the way, one boy and one girl, and they have been dubbed "Rocky" and Roxanne," respectively. Awwww. There's a bit of sadness later in the day when we find out that the kittens (as baby squirrels are called!) are indeed orphans. Mama Squirrel didn't make it through the storm. There's a moment of reverent silence, then, "Well," says Ms. G, "you'd better get to work!" Huh? Oh, riiiiiight...they'll need more milk. Hardy-har-har. :-)

We come now to the showers and party bit. Now, mom and dad have a generator, and they also have their own well. Due to the gasoline shortage, we've been running the generator as little as possible, not even using it to run the well pump. That's been okay, since there is a generous stash of water in the holding tank. It is decided today, though, that we will run the pump to fill the tank back up, and we will all take advantage of this time to take a shower. It's been about 48 hours, so no one is arguing. :-) We're feeling so blessed and thankful, in fact, that we're throwing a post-hurricane party for all the hill's residents. Starting around 6:00 PM, Ms. G and Ms. J will join us in taking turns using the outdoor shower, then once everyone is clean, we're having a meal fit for a king, including pork ribs cooked on the outdoor grill, and corn-on-the-cob and green beans cooked on the propane stove.

Oh, let me tell you about the shower! I believe it was a couple of years ago that mom and dad built it. They wanted an outdoor shower. It would have cold water only, so I thought they were nuts, but I am oh-so-thankful for it now! Higher up on the hill, behind the dog pen, they designed and built two new buildings. One was an open shed, to house the riding lawnmower and various lawn care items, as well as lots of lumber and the Dogloo house that was really the cats' shelter (there are around five outdoor kitties at any given time, though mom's limit is three! Shhh! Don't tell!). The other building is an enclosed outdoor shower, and it's awesome. The walls are all corrugated steel, and the frame and floor are sturdy wood. There's a bench, a trash bin, a mirror, a corner cubby for necessaries like shampoo and deodorant, and the soap even has its own little lidded holder, with a wire screen bottom so it won't collect water and get soggy. Mom and dad keep a plastic bin out there with plenty of towels and washrags. They often use the shower, especially if they've been working out in the yard, so they don't have to track too much mess into the house.

Now, I've never been able to get used to cold showers myself, but because of the heat, I was grateful for the opportunity to cool off, not to mention get clean! Even Darrin joined in--he needs to get clean and cool too! My mom and I trekked out to the shower house together, toting Darrin, and we had dad tote a large silver pail, like the ones we're using to wash our laundry. While mom and I took turns getting ourselves clean, Darrin had a grand time, sitting, naked, in a bucketful of cool water and playing with a washrag and some squirty tub toys. This boy LOVES water! He enjoys it so much, in fact, that we decide to set up the pail with cool water back on the porch, and he can play in it to cool off a few times a day.

Once we're all clean, we enjoy a sumptuous outdoor meal, and we all comment how we thought we'd be LOSING weight by being out of electricity and having to eat whatever came in a can, but NOOOOO, mom had to cook this awesome meal.... :-) Later on, mom and Ms. G and I take advantage of the evening session of running the generator to have lights on in the house and play a game of "California Rummy." It's a great card game; I'll be happy to email you the rules if you're interested. Anyway, a nice, relaxing end to a long day--full tummies, cool, clean bodies, and family and friends hanging out together. Darrin and Mommy slept on mom and dad's big king-size bed (wow, that's comfy!), to take advantage of the wind coming in the windows. It's been dry enough today that the wobbly trees aren't wobbling anymore, especially in the calm breeze (though I'm sure they'll be cut down in the near future for safety's sake). Oh, and my sweetie will be coming after school on Tuesday to pick us up and bring us back home. I'm excited about being with him, living with electricity and A/C, and sleeping in my own bed again, but also sad to be going so soon. Hopefully, I'll be able to come visit again in the next month or two, when things get back to normal.

Next entry: Monday! I visit a few dozen kitties, and later, Darrin shows me how smart he is. :-)

Monday, October 03, 2005

Rita Adventure, Part 3

Okay, so it's been a bit longer between my last post and this one than I had planned. Sorry. Now I'll have to figure out where I left off....

I believe we've made it to Saturday (Sept. 24), in the evening. My sweetie had left for home (with our two kitties in tow) at dusk. After this event (before too I suppose), my memory gets hazy. I know of certain things that we did, but I honestly don't remember when. At some point, I, having brought our digital camera with me, took some pictures of the destruction around the house. Then we all went on a trek throughout the property, me taking digital pictures, my mom taking pictures with a "throw-away" camera, and dad toting Darrin. This is when we discovered the tree that would have crushed mom's future shop. I also realized just how close their bunny, Hoppy, had come to losing his home, as there was at least one large pine branch, if not the entire top of a tree, resting on top of his rabbit hutch. The hutch, thankfully, seemed totally unaffected. Of course, being the handiwork of my mom and dad, it was a very well-crafted hutch, complete with a shingled roof. Not that Hoppy's spoiled or anything. He only gets rabbit food AND rabbit treat AND yogurt chips AND hay AND alfalfa AND chewing sticks AND frozen strawberries every day. Nahhh, not a spoiled bunbun. :-)

I would also like to mention that by this time, the squirrel babies are both alive and doing well. Yayyy! They are living in the lap of luxury, sleeping in thick cushiony towels and dining upon nothing but the best meals, a mixture of evaporated milk and...um...human milk. What can I say? I was there, I was expressing anyway (Darrin was drinking less during the heat/lack of AC), so I contributed what I could. The babies' eyes (and, presumably, ears) are still closed, and their tails are fur-covered but far from bushy. They are eating pretty well, being fed via a thick eye-dropper syringe. They cuddle up next to one another in a cushioned basket nest and sleep whenever they're not eating, safely kept in a cardboard box indoors. We human inhabitants of the house still do not sleep tonight in the beds, for fear that the wobbly tree closest to that side of the house may still fall. Darrin and Mommy and my mom sleep in the hallway on mattresses, and my dad sleeps on the living room couch. My sweetie and kitties are probably all bundled up on our cushy bed, snuggled under the covers because they have AC. Darrin tosses and turns quite a bit, probably uncomfy because it's hot, and at one point I remember saying in total exasperation, "Oh come ON!" At this point, my mom gets up and tells dad to roll over because he's snoring rather loudly. Apparently, my exclamation was misinterpreted, which I think is hilarious, because I had been enjoying the soothing chorus (mom had been snoring too) of snoring, but just couldn't nod off because the little guy next to me wouldn't stop moving around. When Sunday morning eventually comes, we get up and I find out we're having coffee. Coffee? We can do that? Why, yes, we have a propane stove. Awesome. :-)

Perhaps this is a good time to mention the neighbors. Ms. G lives next door and has lots of cats. Not like a dozen... more like 30, some of them being indoor (2 long-term residents and all the current kittens) and the rest being mostly outdoor. I say "mostly" because some of her outside kitties sneak indoors and she, being a softy for them, doesn't always shoo them out right away. Who would? If you have indoor kitties anyway, what's a few more? (This philosophy could get me into real trouble, which is why I cannot work, although I'd love to, at an animal shelter. All the kitties would come home with me.) Neighbor #2 is Ms. J, who lives behind my mom and dad. A retired actress, she's the yang to G's yin when it comes to animals, and her house is full of dogs...though I believe she has a cat as well. My mom tends to be the mother hen for their little hill just outside of Jasper, and my dad is such a MacGuyver, he's often called upon to fix odd things for the neighbors. I swear he can fix anything, or invent his own contraption for getting a job done (with the help of some duct tape of course). So, in this time of crisis, it's only natural that mom and dad are doing all they can to help their neighbors.

Ms. J's home is intact, though she needs help getting windows and doors open. It's about 100 degrees out today, with a heat factor (how hot it feels) of about 108. The trees in Ms. G's front yard have fallen ONTO her house. She now has at least one new unwanted skylight, and there are ceiling tiles and insulation containing who-knows-what on her living room floor and bed. In her bed! She is unharmed, except for any harmful stuff in the air that she may have breathed in. Needless to say, she will be sleeping in the spare room at mom and dad's for a while. Remember, we can't move anything until FEMA sees the damage for themselves. So, there are piles of "rock wool" (if you know what's in it, please let me know what's in it, and if it's dangerous) on her floor and she isn't supposed to move them. Right, so the kitties are required to have a potentially dangerous substance available for them to roll in. Nice policy, people.

Okay, okay, I'll not rant any longer. I'm going to have to cut this entry short now anyway, as Darrin is up from his morning nap. Next entry: a playpen for Darrin, we host a party, and I'm pretty sure it's time for each of us to take a shower!